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Sunday, 24 October 2010

It's All About You - Relationships

Our relationships can be one of the best indicators of where we are spiritually and also where we can remove blocks.

All relationships offer us the opportunity to grow, forgive and experience a situation differently, if we choose to.

Our relationships are our mirrors.

At first this may be hard to understand, but just by choosing to accept that this could be a possibility can cause an amazing shift in perception.

There needs to be an understanding of connection that can only come from experiencing connection in our relationships.

Think of someone that you feel you have had conflict with. Ask yourself – ‘What is it that has bugged me about them?’ – Better still – write it down. Then replace their name in the statement with ‘I’ so that the statement becomes about you. Notice anything?

Spiritual guidance is always gentle, so do not be harsh on yourself. Become aware when you are blaming someone for something and see what happens when you turn it into a statement about you.

Your conflicted relationships will quickly become your greatest allies.

Many Blessings,



Libertine said...

This is a very interesting post and point.. I am impressed by that even though I just realised what I could do wrong.

Julieanne said...

Hi Libertine :)

Thank you :) It just makes things easier to understand ;)

Much Love xxx

Gaia said...

I understand where you are coming from, but sometimes my ego gets the better of me and I refuse to see that it was all my own doing... perhaps meditation might help. Blessings

Julieanne said...

Hi Gaia :)

Just choosing to be aware of this is a great start ;)

Much Love

Julieanne xxx


That reminds me of Byron Katie's Work and the "Judge-Your-Neighbor Worksheet" that you can download directly from her website :

She wrote the book "Loving What Is" with 4 questions that will change your life.

Have a very nice day!


Julieanne said...

Hi Louise

I do enjoy Byron Katie's work.This idea is very much based in A Course in Miracles teachings which I am currently in Ministerial studies for. You may find that many new thought teachers are students of 'A Course in Miracles' including people like, Dr. Wayne Dyer, Eckhart Tolle, Marianne Williamson,Caroline Myss to name just a few. If you are looking for the foundations of their teachings you might like to check it out. Of course these teachers have backgrounds in other teachings and areas of study but do love that they reference ACIM often.They bring great ideas to us and simple formulas to help us see the same thing and that is that we create the illusion and all it takes to change the illusion is a change of mind or thoughts :)

Thanks for visiting

Much Love xxx


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